Banks are a strange animal. Most people don’t really understand how to deal with them.
I have heard countless stories online, from my investors, from my friends, on how they are difficult to deal with, illogical, and unreasonable. I have listened closely to all these situations and have found a something similar in them. Everyone has focused on their OWN situation and tried to convince the banks to align with their needs.
That’s the big mistake. Negotiation 101: understand the other sides position and needs. Negotiate with their needs in mind. The goal in negotiation isn’t to get the best deal you can get for yourself (that’s soooo 1980′s), it’s to meet your requirements. That usually means giving up things to the other side in an effort to achieve your end goal.
I think that is where people go wrong – thinking that they can only get what they want if the other side doesn’t get what they want. The true advantage goes to the party who has the most flexibility. Ever heard MBA students talk about a BATNA? Best Alternative To Negotiated Agreement. Typically, whoever walks in with the best alternative to reaching a compromise has the ultimate power.
In a future post, I will talk about my unique experience. How I approached the bank, how I dealt with them, and how we were able to come to a mutually beneficial resolution.
I promised I would update on the 30 unit building in Kansas City. First some background:
Having tenants pay rent is always a hassle. Some tenants pay on time, other tenants don’t. There are always excuses as to why it may or may not have gotten there. Long story short, landlords and tenants seem to have recurring complexities getting the rent on time.

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